The effects that rape has on a child; male or female, has lifelong devastating consequences. The weight and the devastating effects of such trauma on the mind of a child is greatly down played. This is so because a child lacks the experience, the command of language and the overall ability to adequately express with words, that which they are true feelings and experiencing. They cannot give a comparative analysis of their life or the way they felt before the assault and their life and how their life have change after the assault. As a result, of the trauma they were force to meet head on and experience.
When a child is raped, because those children are severely under developed in all of their faculties, which includes but are not limited to their mental, physical, emotional, and social faculties; at that point of their great trauma, a lot of things happens, the first things is, those child victims are knocked off course with their general development, the trauma of their experience cause all of their faculties to be tossed and scrambled, creating a barrage of confusion that is worse than a woman in menopause.
Because of their immaturity and a limited reasoning ability, their low level of understand of the workings of the human person and their place and their functions within the community; as well as, their limited understanding of the normal and reasonable expectations of the community has of them as well The understanding of the things they would have later get a full grasp of are flipped upside down, the things they would have learn normally; with the progression of time, become all disorganized, the normal things seems out of place, and their ability to comprehend simple things are scramble.
Their security was shattered, and the security and the confidence they once feel, being in the arms or the presence of their parents is shattered. Who can protect me if my parents could not? Is the question that mostly occupies their minds. Their insecurity and the disgusting feelings of being violently and prematurely violated leaves them with an overwhelming feeling give them a hint that something is not normal with them and their experience. They always question themselves, wondering: why they are not normal? Why they are so different than most people? This coupled with the persistent feel of powerlessness that is the residue of the traumatic experience they were forced to encounter.
The truth is they are not normal because of their experience; and the quicker we accept and acknowledge this simple fact, is the faster we are able to help them to understand the travesty that was inflicted upon them. The simple fact is; their experience is not a normal experience; if it was, then it would not have been a crime and the effects would not have been so devastating. The mental, social, emotional and physical pain they experience because of their experience is not normal. You don’t see normal rational or other parents going out there organizing for their juvenile sons and daughters to be raped. One will have to asked yourself this simple question. Why the normal and relational parents are not out and organization for their juvenile sons and daughters to be raped?
If you have answer this question, then you would have answer the question as it relates to the normalcy of their rape victim life. In the life of a child victim this emotional and other trauma becomes their normal; but it is still not normal. In other word; if something is all a person know it does not mean that thing is normal; and it is doing a travesty of common sense, intelligence, good judgement, and an injustice for any one, institution and or organization to lead these victims to believe that they are normal; It may sound good to say it, it may make us feel better about our self; but how does it make that victim feel.
I declare here it is not a good it is not true and it is not right; for the world to tell them that they are normal, when they know from examining the community and from the way they feel they know they are not. For them to be normal, then their experience (Rape as a child) has to also be normal, the confusion they experience have to be normal. It is true they look normal, but normality does not have anything to do with looks and or appearance, it has to do with the functionality.
The same thing happens to an adult. However, at this stage, they learned and understand all of the things that was mentioned above. Now with their faculties scrambled and tossed, and the confusion that ensued they are unable to reconcile that which they have learn and understood to be normal prior to their violations to the way they now feel. To understand the verbal explanation of this from an adult one would have had to walk in their shoes.
Objective of the Prison System
The prison system has an organized systemic cycle that has for century, they have been practiced legalize homosexuality and legalize homosexual rape. A system where men are brutally gang raped, and beaten, and in some cases, a weaker man may be made a permanent prison bitch (one who satisfy the sexual desire of another) of another, one who is stronger especially leaders of prison gangs.
However, the wheel turn, it is all set up to keep, the revolving doors of the prison moving, the cycle of prison rape spinning, and the black community on the brink of collapsing within and upon its self.
So the mass incarceration of black men is a deliberate effort to destroy the black community. When a brother enters the prison system 90% of the time, they were raped in some cases they were gang raped, in order to deal with their shame, their brokenness and because they are often to weak, and afraid of their rapist to exhort revenge, they make a victim of some weaker person who is new to the penal system, creating the same environment, under which they were victimized. Do you see the type, the level and the severity of the broken and the abnormality we are dealing with.
In most cases, by the time, an incarcerated brother is release from the penal system; he is broken beyond repair, he is so psychologically messed up that he is of no real value to themselves, their families and or their communities. They have either been raped multiple times, participated in multiple rapes of weaker younger men; normally, frighten black young men, or they have willingly and voluntarily participated in homosexual activities to satisfy their sexual urged they may have had.
So when, a black man is released from prison, and returned to the community, he may look the same, he may sound the same when he speaks, he may like the same food he liked, but that friend, that brother, that father, that uncle or that grand papa is not the same, he may become an unconsciously rapist, who will pray on the weak and the innocent as all rapist does. As we all know victims of rape rarely ever come forward, and a threat to kill a child or a threat to kill the child's parents is always enough to keep that child quiet for the rest of their life.
That is the primary reason the black communities are so messed up, that is why, there are so many black youths are homosexuals; it is also for the same reason why black youths will mercilessly kill each other, because a tattooed brother or sister is dressed in blue or red apparel.
Mass incarceration of the black man is a scientifically, well thought out plan that has been executed to perfection to ensure the Israelite does not achieved their true potential and that they are kept destitute and always looking to the white man for a hand out. The cycle is, their father’s destroys the black communities then their white children finds relevance and become rich in helping the retched people. Yet the black community is blinded even though the cycle had been replaying for the pass two hundred (200) years
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